The difference between a player and natural with women

There is a certain type of man who can be characterized as a “player” and a slightly more niched version called a “playah”.
These men well going through a lot of rejection will often be quite successful with women. This is primarily because they know who they are in terms of their desire for sex and they are not ashamed of it or trying to repress it like most of the men in America are.
They will specifically seek out women who are more aligned to the socially acceptable or cultural paradigm of “the game” or even just women who want to “be played”, but either way both sexes are making use of their sexuality without repressing.
Many of the people who look upon players may say things about them but I think that they are ultimately a little bit jealous. I even think that women who are repressed are secretly wanting to be played just a little bit herself just so they can get some sexual pleasure from a man who knows how to please them.
The most extreme version of this is their hip-hop culture where people are openly hard-core players and where the women are “bitches” and “ho”s”. The ironic thing is that many of these women will easily live up to that reality as long as a man is congruent with who he is as a real player.
There does not have to be any shame in the game when both a man and a woman in fully expressed their sexuality with each other for mutual fulfillment.
Also the term “bitch” correlates a lot with her own self-identity because of what society has taught her or accepted her as (and because of the way she treats most men who don”t get it).
There is a lot of drama involved with anything other than a sexual relationship on this level of game; and that is on both sides of the fence.
So how do you compare the 50-50 dating realm of mostly courtship behavior (where most men and women do not get sexual fulfillment) with the player realm? Also isn”t there another option going on?
Yes, do not forget about the entire “seduction” subculture, but there is also one more thing that is more important and that is being a pure and true natural when it comes to being successful with women (or playing the accelerated mating program).
Women will react in different ways to a man who is congruent coming from either of these realities. And they are realities too. Look at our hip-hop and rap stars. You cannot deny the lifestyles that they really are living. This is because they are seeing things in a different light and living that as part of who they are 100%. Any women can take it or leave it.
But I want to just talk about the difference between a “player” and a pure natural. A player is someone who will be more likely to approach women and throw out a social persona which has a lot of game (if he is really good that social persona will be who he really is and then he will have a better chance of success).
Either way a woman will respond to him in either a positive or negative manner. If she is neutral he may just keep throwing a game out and she may be up for. The player likes to be very upfront about what he expects (although not immediately and a woman who is the target of a player has some decisions to make.
Often her decision will be based upon her level of interest or likability of his social persona, or how she thinks he may fulfill her in bed if she is ready, then she might give him a chance. But it is more likely for him to get rejected just all the way around the board, this leaves him to approaching many different women until he gets the positive hit.
At that point he will probably be very successful with her. She is probably very aware of what she is getting into and is accepting to go along with him.
Players are a little bit different from seducers and that players are a little more congruent naturally about been comfortable with their own sexuality, where as seducers are usually men who have been repressed for many years and are often times average looking who are now wanting to score with women because they have found that some people are using certain techniques that work with them.
Seducers will have to develop a very high level of technique and game and will probably get rejected just as much if not more than the “player” type of person. Either way, all of these women know that men are approaching them and they are going to have to make decisions quickly; in most cases that means rejecting them right up front.
Do you have to become a seducer or player in order to be successful with women? Not anymore. There is something that is closer to what women really want and that is just being a man who really is a natural. And if you think that you have been a natural before, I challenge you that you do not know the half of it.
A pure natural will have James Bond like success with women everywhere he goes. He is able to attract women to him without having to put out a lot of game and then risked being rejected by her social persona. You do not have to become a player, you can become and uber-player that has a level of success with women that will boggle other people”s mind.
This is because you will be coming from the most natural paradigm that is quite actually impossible to see in America today. That is why there are probably only a few handful of men who are pure naturals in the entire United States, who DON”T have to use pickup lines, throw out the game or be a seducer.
If you want this level of success with women than I encourage you to find out more about my book “Mens Guide to Women”.