Words are most powerful and valuable in the world. They are capable of causing happiness as well as sorrow. Usage of language opens their minds letting others to read them. Hence one ought to take utmost care while uttering words of rage.
It is fun for some people to use words to satisfy their little self. They do not realize the value of their speech and so use it with no limits. Such thoughtless words end up in insulting many beings. Prosperity, jealousy, ego, hostility and many aspects lead a person to insult another unnecessarily.
You get disheartened when you come across words of insult. Being human, it is natural. Being human, you are also capable of over coming the insult in your every day life by simple means.
When you come across any insults, do not panic. Being insulted appears to be one problem, panicking turns out to be the major issue. So in order not to intensify the pain, be calm and positive. Being optimistic in pessimistic times is true optimism. Firstly, pick a lesson from that insult. Secondly, take it as a stepping stone to move higher and higher. Every time you are insulted, take it to your advantage. Every negative comment should turn into a new page in the chapter of your courageous Life. If some one insults you, do not start ignoring and hating that person. Dig with in to check if you are worthy of that. If not, ignore it. If you are a person of Conscience, you will know if you deserve those comments. If so, give a start to rectify yourself. Every moment you should breathe that insult positively in order to get over the blame of insult. When you are aware of it, you will start improving. You will learn a lesson which helps you not to repeat it and grow further. Be thankful to that person for giving you an opportunity to look with in. To err is human; to knowingly live in the error is not helplessness but foolishness. Do not live in the insult. Move forward with it. Life will be smooth for you because you will actually be walking on the insults of failures heading towards success. A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty. Success without failure and insult is incomplete.
Learn to deal with the insult and do not run away from it, for it will be escapism which obstructs your growth and the opportunity to learn life lessons which are only meant to help you grow higher and higher leading to more perfection. Every time a problem arises, you escape by blaming some one who was the cause for it. So you are turning away from the present problem. You have escaped it once but if you do not learn how to rectify the problem, you will have to learn escaping from your problems your whole life. So why not learn to insult the insult and the one behind it by facing it with courage and self-confidence? Self-confidence is your only strength which wont let your head down with guilt before anyone. Pride then dances on your shoulders while the smile dances on your lips.
Let Insult be not in the dictionary of Good and the Noble. – Sharmila Sanka
