How to Turn That “Friend” Into Your Devoted Lover!

How to Turn That “Friend” Into Your Devoted Lover!
It”s truly amazing the questions I get.
I guess since this newsletter goes around the world and reaches
guys from every walk of life, from every kind of culture. In
every age range, you”d think guys have different problems with
women.
But when it comes to women, I”ve learned we are pretty much the
same.
We all face pretty much the same challenges.
We are all pretty much trying to figure out the same puzzles.
Now, here is a question I have seen many times. I”ll let the
reader speak in his own voice:
“My name is XXX and I am 18 and from Ireland. I think your
material is absolutely fantastic and it has thought me so many
little things in which you should never, ever do with women! And
for that I thank you most grateful .I don”t know where you
learned all of this but it really is great.
I have a problem though, and I know you are probably a very busy
man who won”t reply to this but I am going to write it none the
less. I am completely falling for one of my friends. I feel a
very strong sexual attraction towards her, perhaps stronger than
I have ever felt before. I have never been closer to a girl. We
talk for hours, we are very physically close when we are with
each other but I think she may be afraid of abandoning
friendship. This is a serious gripe in my side. Is there anything
I could do effectively to bring out her true feelings and desires
without blatantly asking her? I suppose I want to know how you
tell when a girl gets close to you whether she is a friend or
something more.”
Ok, Mr. X.
The first thing to realize is, even if this girl is totally
attracted to you, to the point where she is having nightly
fantasies about you and her doing the nasty “grown-up” thang,
there is just about zero chance, especially given her young age,
that she is going to make the first physical move.
Sorry, but that just isn”t the way it works.
I really wish it weren”t the case that we guys almost always have
to go first.
But that is how it works.
So if you were hoping for her to make a move, or tell you
herself, it”s unlikely to happen.
Now, even if she is afraid of “losing the friendship” that
doesn”t mean you have to let her fears dictate where you or she
are going to go.
As I have said before, one of the key aspects of being a leader
with women is to see where they are at, without having to go
there for yourself.
That is, you can understand her emotions, without having to take
them on for yourself.
Her fear is just that; H-E-R-S.
Stand your ground, and set the lead.
Does that make sense?
Now, having set that, there are some things you can do to
accelerate this sexually and see just where you really stand.
First of all, let me tell you what I do NOT recommend.
I do NOT recommend suddenly grabbing and kissing her.
Why?
It”s too rough a jump.
To go from zero contact to erotic contact (like kissing) is just
too abrupt.
So I would recommend you do some testing of her physical
boundaries first.
Now, it just so happens, women have 3 “erotic hot spots” that
seem like totally innocent places to touch.
These are:
1. The back of the neck
2. The small of the back
3. The palm (and thumb)
(By the way, if you want to see free video clips of me
demonstrating the first two spots on a very hot female subject,
just go to: http://www.seduction.com/resources.asp)
Anyway, here is what you can do:
When you are talking to her, get up to go to the bathroom, but as
you do, reach out, and with the palm of your hand, gently rub the
back of your neck (as I illustrate on the free video on the
website).
Notice her response. If she inhales sharply, moans with pleasure,
melts under your touch, then you are on your way!
Another thing you can do is to offer to read her palm. Don”t” ask
me how to do palm reading; go to the library and get a book on
it.
Anyway, you can mostly make it up. Tell her that her palm shows
she is lonely. Trace your finger on her palm and tell her that
her love line is very strong, that she has strong desires.
Explain also that the palm is a strong energy center, then take
your thumb and rub her palm with your thumb.
If you see her get the “doggy dinner bowl” look, the look that
says, “Kiss me now”, then lean in and kiss her! If she pulls
back, don”t apologize! Just look at her and say, “Hmmm… it just
seemed like you needed it”!
Another thing to do (also illustrated on the website) is to put
your palm briefly on the small of her back when you are walking
somewhere. Don”t keep it there. Just use it to guide her briefly
and then take it away. The small of the back is a strong sexual
energy center.
The best advice is: learn from this. Don”t be too attached to
this outcome with this girl. Remember this belief:
I either get what I want, or learn what I need to in order to get
what I want or even BETER, next time.
If you see all of this through the filter of THAT belief, you
will do way better with this girl than if you HAVE to “win”.
Good luck, and let us know how it turns out.
Piece and Peace,
RJ
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