How to Get Any Girl Steaming Hot, In MINUTES!
In the last issues, I laid out the basic operating theory of
Speed Seduction: that women have internal, subjective “recipes”
for love, lust, chemistry, attraction etc that they run on
themselves quite outside of their conscious awareness.
I pointed out also that this “process” produces the “feelings”
that they base their actions, decisions and choices on when it
comes to us poor horny men!
Therefore, as smart guys, we are no longer going to be fooled by
“dating” thinking or “dating” questions which entirely ignore
this vital information about how women get “feelings” and what is
really important for us as seducers to think about.
So instead of being what I call A.F.C.s(Average Frustrated
Chumps) we are going to learn to enter of the world of Speed
Seduction? and learn to rapidly trigger these internal feeling
recipes that produce these feeling “states” so we can quickly and
easily enjoy power, choice and variety with women most guys just
have to wish and long for.
The key then is to ask the question: What kind of “states” do I
want this woman to experience with me? And how can I trigger
these states using my language: the themes I talk about, the
stories I tell, the descriptions of my experiences I give, and
the questions I ask?
You see, one key secret to getting a woman to undergo all her
internal feeling recipes or “states” is…
GET HER TO TALK ABOUT THEM!
Yes, my friends, old Guru Ross clears up another mystery here: by
talking about “feelings” women tend to unconsciously trigger
their internal feeling “recipes” or processes, which then of
course…
Makes the Feelings More Vivid And Real!
For men, talking is mostly about conveying a message or
information. It can be the same for women, but much the time,
talking is their way of unconsciously triggering these “recipe”
programs that run outside of their awareness, so they can…
Enjoy These Intense Feelings Again!
What I am saying here is that there is an actual ongoing brain
process where-by the language centers of the brain, when
triggered by speech, somehow stimulate or cause her internal
feeling recipes or processes for love, lust, attraction (or any
other strong feeling state, positive or negative) so that these
processes get run again and she can have the “feeling”
experience.
Hey
I just explained TWO mysteries: why women are so “into”
their “feelings” and why they love to talk so much! Nobel Prize,
anybody?
Ok. Let”s now give you a peek at some of the actual Speed
Seduction? tools you can use over coffee, on a first meeting, or
wherever you find yourself talking to a woman.
The first tool I want to introduce you to is conversational set
ups and themes.
You see, it usually isn”t considered normal or socially
acceptable to launch into immediate discussions of have women
experience “attraction” “chemistry” “connection” or “lust”.
As important as these experiences may be, you need some way of
introducing them into conversation so you appear to be a normal,
non-threatening guy.
So let me introduce you to some key part of the Speed Seduction
framework. In the brief example below we”ll talk about
conversational set-ups, quotes, embedded commands, priming
patterns and trigger questions. Used in combination, these can
get a woman to unconsciously run virtually any feeling
recipe/state so she has the resulting feelings that will lead to
the behaviors you want.
Conversational Set-Ups
Conversational set ups allow you, after just a bit of small talk,
to bring up those themes, subjects and topics that are far more
likely to trigger these “states” we are after in a woman: deep
rapport, comfort, connection, fascination, lust, desire,
chemistry etc.
Again, they let you avoid the taboo against discussing such
things right off the bat or discussing them directly with someone
you just met. And you can”t just walk up to a woman and command,
“YOU WILL FEEL LUST FOR ME”.
A good way to bring up these “heavier” topics is to use a pattern
called quotes. Quotes involves simply quoting a conversation or
topic that you were having with a friend, or something that you
heard in a seminar or read in a magazine or saw on TV.
Quotes allow you to naturally bring up almost any topic in a
non-threatening way. Why? Because you aren”t addressing something
to her directly. Just quoting what you said or heard said. So it
is less threatening.
Also, we tend to use this pattern in language naturally all the
time ANYWAY, as in, “Did you hear what Ross said to Rachel on
“Friends”? etc., etc., etc. The unconscious mind tends to
recognize patterns of communication more than it does actual
content. So if it feels to the unconscious like a natural pattern
of communication (quoting someone else) then the actual content
becomes a lot more acceptable.
So let”s say you want to trigger that subjective “state” in a
woman that involves feeling like there is a wild adventure- a
real opportunity she has to act on RIGHT now or she”ll lose it
forever.
Here”s how to use quotes to bring it up:
“You know, I was having the most interesting discussion the other
night with an old friend I had not seen in years (Conversational
set-up, quoting you and your friend)
The next thing we are going to do is use a bit of language I call
a “weasel phrase”. Weasel phrases just set up the person to make
a deep search of their inner experience without making it seem
like you are giving a direct command.
You can”t directly say, for example, “I command you to go inside
your memory and remember what it is like to feel something and
then feel that way with me”.
Instead, when you use the weasel phrase “have you ever” it is
actually a command but it sounds like an innocent question.
For example, if I wrote, “Have you ever read something and it
just seemed so fascinating, you realized you want to learn more/”
It”s actually a command to go into your memory and recall it, but
it is much easier to disguise the command into the form of a
question about your experience because that way you don”t resist
it.
Make sense? Let”s continue with our example.
“By the way, HAVE YOU EVER just had a friend, and you could just
FEEL SO COMFORTABLE FEEL SO CLOSE(embedded commands-giving her
commands to feel comfortable and close by bringing up the
situation and hiding the commands inside a description of the
situation-sneaky, isn”t it). You could just FEEL LIKE YOU CAN SAY
ANTHING. (another command to feel free to talk).
Notice here we threw in a few suggestions and commands: FEEL SO
COMFORTABLE. FEEL SO CLOSE. FEEL LIKE YOU CAN SAY ANYTHING.
We didnt t suggest or command directly. We hid them inside that
“have you ever” weasel phrase-something that looked a question
about her experience but was actually a command to go inside and
search her memory.
Sneaky, sneaky, I know. But it works. Onward.
“So we were talking about how sometimes life presents an
opportunity and you realize that if you don”t take the
opportunity to have an adventure, you”ll lose it forever.
(focusing in on the topic now)
Ok. Now we are going to use a “pattern” or priming example: this
is a description of your experience or someone else”s experience.
It is designed to “prime the pump” and begin to activate the
structures of her brain and mind that produce and run her
“recipes” as we discussed in the last newsletter.
“Like for example he was telling me how he had a chance to take a
police car for a joy-ride, and how he could just FEEL THIS
EXCITEMENT(another command embedded in your story) and it was
just like this other part of him came out and he had to take this
ride.”
Note that little bit about “take this ride”-said with the right
tonality it becomes a piece of sexual metaphor. This a way to
help guide the “recipe” process towards triggering something that
will produce sexual feelings. Note that it is not guaranteed to
do this, by itself. It is just priming the pump. A start.
Now we are going to use “have you ever again” again to get her
to talking. Why? Because please remember it is by talking women
revivify and trigger their most intense and important feeling
processes/recipes.
When she talks about her processes and “recipes” and experiences,
she can experience the intense feelings we want her to have, and
then we can link them to us.
Using “Have You Ever” A Second Time
We”ve used “have you ever” once to begin to prime her memory. Now
we use “have you ever” again but this time it will activate those
feeling recipes and processes by getting her to talk about them:
“So I think because you can learn a lot about a person from that,
have you ever had an experience like that, where you just had to
go with an adventure that was in your path, take a ride that just
seemed so irresistible?”
What have we done here? In just a few minutes we:
1. Introduced a topic, guided her memory and imagination for a
very important and powerful feeling “recipe” and process
2. Gotten her to talk about it to revivify it and make it real
again, all in what sounds like an innocent and completely normal
conversation.
Not bad at all. Considering you can learn to do this in a 20
minute conversation and you begin now to see the potential for
unleashing your love life!
One more point: when you watch a woman as she describes these
experiences, you will see her begin to strongly have these
feelings. Often her face will flush, her breathing will get
heavier, and she”ll get what I call DDBL or the…
Doggie Dinner Bowl Look!
This is an expression similar to the ones my Dalmatians I had as
a kid would get when I would show them the can of dog food
through the window so they knew it was feeding time!
Now, once a woman is experiencing these strong feeling states in
your presence, because she”s running her internal “feeling
recipe” it”s really only a short matter of time before you are
baking your brownies in her oven(to use a metaphor again!).
Remember: women act on strong feelings. As long as the feelings
are there, as the end result of her running her internal
“recipes” she will not in any way realize or know how they came
about.
She will only feel them, feel happy they are there and feel glad
that you will be feeling her in all those ways her nice guy
“friends” will never get to.
Ok. I don”t want to overwhelm you. The study of using
conversational set ups, quotes, priming patterns, embedded
commands, command questions and other tools-this study is the
core of Speed Seduction. But do go out and try some of this stuff
and you”ll be shocked to see it works and works amazingly well.
Just remember a key rule: Speed Seducers never communicate just
to be flapping your lips. Communicate with an outcome in mind so
you can direct and trigger her feeling “recipes” in the direction
you want, you the result you want is what you get!
Til next time,
Peace and piece,
have you ever had an experience like that, where you just had to
go with an adventure that was in your path, take a ride that just
seemed so irresistible?”
What have we done here? In just a few minutes we:
1. Introduced a topic, guided her memory and imagination for a
very important and powerful feeling “recipe” and process
2. Gotten her to talk about it to revivify it and make it real
again, all in what sounds like an innocent and completely normal
conversation.
Not bad at all. Considering you can learn to do this in a 20
minute conversation and you begin now to see the potential for
unleashing your love life!
One more point: when you watch a woman as she describes these
experiences, you will see her begin to strongly have these
feelings. Often her face will flush, her breathing will get
heavier, and she”ll get what I call DDBL or the…
Doggie Dinner Bowl Look!
This is an expression similar to the ones my Dalmatians I had as
a kid would get when I would show them the can of dog food
through the window so they knew it was feeding time!
Now, once a woman is experiencing these strong feeling states in
your presence, because she”s running her internal “feeling
recipe” it”s really only a short matter of time before you are
baking your brownies in her oven(to use a metaphor again!).
Remember: women act on strong feelings. As long as the feelings
are there, as the end result of her running her internal
“recipes” she will not in any way realize or know how they came
about.
She will only feel them, feel happy they are there and feel glad
that you will be feeling her in all those ways her nice guy
“friends” will never get to.
Ok. I don”t want to overwhelm you. The study of using
conversational set ups, quotes, priming patterns, embedded
commands, command questions and other tools-this study is the
core of Speed Seduction. But do go out and try some of this stuff
and you”ll be shocked to see it works and works amazingly well.
Just remember a key rule: Speed Seducers never communicate just
to be flapping your lips. Communicate with an outcome in mind so
you can direct and trigger her feeling “recipes” in the direction
you want, you the result you want is what you get!
Til next time,
Peace and piece,
Ross
P.S. As I said in a previous issue, this way of speaking may seem
strange to you as a guy, and that is a GOOD thing. It”s not
supposed to be the kind of thing we GUYS respond to. It IS what
women love, what triggers their deeper level emotional centers,
and what stimulates their fantasies and sexual desires. YOU DON”T
BAIT THE HOOK WITH WHAT YOU LIKE TO EAT, to use a crude metaphor
that I hope will not offend. If this seems strange to YOU, so
much the better! That”s actually a good reason why you must try
it; what is different from what we are used to doing brings us
results different than what we are used to ENJOYING! Think about
it! Or better still, jump on over to:
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