So why do we have a tongue-in-cheek battle of the sexes? Is a really tongue-in-cheek, or is it something more serious than that? Could this really be something that has damaged the psyche of the American male as well as left American women confused?
Well the reality is, yes we do have a battle of the sexes. With women”s empowerment in the last century she now has the ability to compete with men as well as take on many of his opportunities as well. Now a woman is pretty much equal, in some cases more powerful, in some cases socially a little less powerful; but either way a woman can now add value to the world instead of just men.
This is not necessarily a bad thing, in fact I think it is a great thing (imagine if we only had male entertainers) but the dynamics of male and female relationships has been thrown off dramatically from their traditional roots.
Since a woman can now compete with a man in many different levels, she has become is equal as well in the dating realm. This is now the socially accepted standard by which, unfortunately, 99.9% of our public cannot see beyond.
Take a look at our whole entire dating scene, online dating scene, social networks, dating gurus and relationship counselors, especially the marriage counselors…everything is coming at a meeting of the minds were both men and women are equal.
Because a woman has so much power and independence, she now has choice over men from which is the exact opposite of her biological or natural role where a dominant alpha male would take his choice of the best females. Unfortunately this competition in the workplace, social environment has transgressed into relationships themselves and often to disastrous consequences..
A woman will now easily state her mind, and bring drama to the table without hesitation in many cases and a man will be confused as to what to do because it doesn”t feel natural because he feels the power shifting towards her end.
In many cases in our society today, I would say most cases, the relationship is a balance in which a woman has more power and say in the relationship then her traditional counterparts in other parts of the world, and this causes great distress for the entire relationship.
Just one look at our divorce ratio and you will see that there is definitely a battle of the sexes that is going on. It is going on right now with millions of couples who are arguing right now across America. It is a battle of two independent realities and highly developed minds based upon years of decision making and social influence.
Two people that have been allowed to develop themselves to a strong level of character (perhaps even self-actualization but now must try to balance things out and live with each other or make things work. Often this battle is unspoken and this only leads to resentment on both parties. Marriage and divorce counseling is a huge thing in America today.
Why is it that no other countries have near this level of relationship problems? It comes down to this reversal of power that is throwing off the balance and producing byproducts such as 40 year-old virgins, Paradox outlets such as the Russian bride trend, strip clubs, pornography and much more.
Each sex will often divulge itself into its pure form. Examples include “The Man Show”, Playboy, Cosmo, etc. Oftentimes they will develop more ammunition against the other sex and more resentment because of the unbiological balance of power that no one can see.
As a man if you can understand all of the Universal dynamics that are coming into play, you can give yourself a power of understanding and leverage that almost no men in America have yet. You will be able to reach women on a natural level of sexual and interpersonal attraction without having to learn pickup lines or seduction techniques, purely by the aligning yourself to the universal paradigm which I can teach you.
By having knowledge and just the awareness alone of this battle of the sexes, and the fact that women are very repressed and waiting for a real man despite what their social persona and a rejection of most men says (who don”t get it you will be able to determine the type of relationships you want to have in your life.
You will also be able to choose the direction of any relationship with any woman that you initiate. The type of relationship you decide with the type of woman you choose will determine whether it”s going to be a real battle or if it”s going to be a natural process. You can really have more mutually fulfilling relationships once you clear away the confusion that our society has brought upon us.
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