When cancer strikes, we may turn to prayer.
By “prayer,” I simply mean connecting with the sacred. Prayers are often
directed to a higher power, but they don’t have to be.
Often, prayers involving cancer ask for a particular outcome. We might
pray for a cure, or for the results of our next test to be favorable, or for
freedom from unwanted side-effects of treatment.
Such prayers offer a release for intense emotions and connect us with
our Source of meaning, power, hope and unconditional love.
On the other hand, if our prayers don’t bring the results that we asked
for, we may experience spiritual distress.
Here are some tips for keeping your experience with “asking” prayer
positive:
- Pray honestly. This is no time to hold back!
- Remember that prayer doesn’t require words. Tears, sighs, and
simply relaxing into the sacred can all be prayer. - Don’t worry about falling asleep during prayer. Moms don’t mind
when their babies fall asleep in their arms. Your higher power won’t
mind either. - Ask others to pray with and for you. Even if you don’t see the answer
to their prayers, right away, you’ll get a lift from the love of the pray-ers. li> - Believe that your prayer will be answered in wondrous ways — some
of which you may not see. - Don’t worry about praying the “right”
way. When a toddler blurts out, “Wah nuk,” a loving parent answers,
“Oh, do you want some milk? Here it is!” In a similar way, the One we
pray to can make sense of our prayers even if we sound like nonsense
to ourselves. - Conclude “asking” prayer with thanksgiving to boost your hope and
serenity.
(c) 2005 Norma Schmidt, LLC, d/b/a My Cancer
Support Coach.com
Norma Schmidt, M.A., M.Div., is the creator of the “Inspired Survivor”
one-to-one cancer support coaching program. She also co-hosts “The
Inspired Survivor Show” on
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